What do you feel pressure to do that you don’t particularly enjoy?
Closest thing that comes to mind here is looking for work…. The pressure coming both internally and (in some cases) externally. It’s not that I don’t want to look for work or wouldn’t enjoy (or, at least feel better about myself)…. But trying to find something at my age (with no marketable skills) has proven daunting…. Not to mention fear of how I’d do and concern about how husband would fare with me not there to assist him as needed.